you can say youre going to do this or youre going to do that, but the truth is...you dont know what youre going to do until it happens to you.

and from the other side of the perspective here....i have cheated and contrary to everyone's beliefs...it isnt all fine and dandy on this end of it! it's hell! pure hell. yes, being cheated on hurts like a bitch too, ive also been there...but being the one responsible for breaking someones heart and causing so much pain and disappointment to the people around you...that's like walking through hell. for whatever the reason may be, people make mistakes and cheating on him was the biggest mistake of my life. you can look down on me and anyone else who has cheated, but you dont know whats going on in their head and the reasoning behind it.... [/rambling]