The problem with infidelity is the same with any crime or breach of contract... the first time you catch it, chances are it happened at least 3 times without being caught... But... y'know, I don't like to be a hardass and inflexible with my views, and I can see situations where I can move the relationship beyond the questionable event... but that takes honesty on both parts, with your partners and yourself...

I've never cheated, and when I'm in a serious relationship with a girl, nothing deters me...

Thus, it came as a horrible shock when my last girlfriend decided to accuse me of cheating! I was confused as fawk until, talking with her friends and piecing things together she has said to me, she had cheated on me and was trying to justify it...

Long Distrance Relationships... blessings straight from the devil :madfawk:

She came crawling back twice, both times I turned her down as soon as she asked if we could get back together... I simply don't trust her anymore...