nthn special, since ebay can't help you, and if you REALLY want a fair deal, which I'm sure you deserve, just let the guy who sold you the lights know that if he doesn't help solve your problem, you're perfectly fine with letting his current bidders know what kind of lights they're getting into if they are bidding on the same product. I know it's sleazy, and wrong, but ultimately it's a dog eat dog world, and, well, a dog's gotta eat. I'm sure he'll come around if he doesn't want you screwing with his business. Of course, I think ebay has a rule about mailing bidders when you're not the seller, but they're not the justice dept, they won't press charges. Good luck.