Originally posted by sexygreencivic
well, I am a victim. My ex was murdered, and although I feel for the families, I think its more of a "getting into the mind" thing. I guess i'm curious about what I can't understand, and what I don't understand is "why"
How would you feel if you found out that
your prisoner pen pal had murdered your ex? Would you still want to be friendly with him/her? Would you still want to press on to find out "WHY"?
Why not spend some time with someone who deserves your attention, like volunteering at a hospital, or an animal shelter? It's much healthier to focus your energy on lives that are still full of promise, and lives that will enrich yours.