Yea i've been trying to talk some sense into him. I mean he plans on just moving in with her..yet they have no $$ saved up to even get into an Apt. THey dont realize that you cant just move into an Apt with no money. I was going to have a heart to heart conversation last nite when I got home from work, but he hasn't been home yet (he's been at the firestation all nite) so I'm going to try and talk to him again tonite after work. I just dont want to see him get screwed over. For the marriage not to work out, and for him to get very depressed again and do something scary h: