Originally posted by tirodēslc
hmm... depends on the person.. and their "maturity" when they do get married..
at my last job, i worked with 40yr+ old peeps that all had been through at least 1 marraige... and i gained alot of wisdom from them.. and when it comes down to it... you should never "need" anything from the person you are marrying... it should be because of love and want... if its because of need, then I consider that a character weakness..
Man since when did you become such a selfish person, with all the wants and ish? That is out of your character. I agree with Will when he mentioned after a time there is a sense of need between the individuals. After you help each other get through tough things in life you do gain a sense of need for them. Just like I NEED Jamie. Not cause I couldn't take care of myself but because I believe God intended man to be with woman (me to be with her.) Now before you peeps flame me on that statement, this is my own opinion and I do have friends who are gay.