Originally posted by WiLL
i think when people are in love, they grow a dependency for one another. so in turn, you will "need" them.
something i remember my prof saying, as much as some would hate to admit it, we only marry and love if we have something to gain.
hmm... depends on the person.. and their "maturity" when they do get married..
at my last job, i worked with 40yr+ old peeps that all had been through at least 1 marraige... and i gained alot of wisdom from them.. and when it comes down to it... you should never "need" anything from the person you are marrying... it should be because of love and want... if its because of need, then I consider that a character weakness..