Yeah, It should be under the dash somewhere under the little coin thing. Just get one @ the dealer, and then install it yourself and save 50-100 at least.

Click on this, this is what it looks like:
http://www.fourthgenhatch.com/photos...mainrelay2.jpg

Just look under your dash(between the door and the steering column)and look for something like that. You should only have to remove a few screws/bolts at most to get to it and change it.