Originally posted by FromTheBottom
wow you guys have hit it totally on the mark for me. i fear not being over my ex every day, but i think it's more loneliness than anything else. i've seen her at the bars or whatever, and i don't feel a thing for her, so i think it's losing that closeness that gets to me.
one thing i've learned to do is to live life for myself. if you're not happy relationship wise, go out and reward yourself. the best way for me to cope with the breakup was to spoil myself once in a while, especially since i was saving a lot of money by not going out to dinner with her or whatever.
just try to live it up for yourself. cherish the times with your close friends, and live to make yourself happy. i go running and work out when i get into those moods. it's all about what you make of it, turning that negative energy into something positive.
u make it sound so easy....its not that easy for some people...me being one of them
