what would you do? it's kinda sticky...
 

here's a little background. there's this lady i work with thats in a bad marriage and she doesn't wanna divorce cause she's afriad of the kids being split up. me and her are really coo. now, i was supposed to go to the scrip club a while back with another lady friend cause i never went before and i didn't know where they were in this area. it was kind of somethin we thought up driving around late at night. so i jokingly, i told her about it and she said she'd think about it since she knows where they are but she's never been for a really long time. the other day she reminds me of it and we agree that it should be a weekend but nothing is set yet. she's kind of a milf but i not sure if i'd wanna hit it if i got the opportunity or if she wants me to be her "fun" person cause she's not on good terms with her husband. would you...

I guess it depends on what you want out of the relationship. If you want to hit it, im sure going to the skrip klub and chillin' afterwards is the right way to get it. So how do you feel about her? One thing that cought my attention was you said you "told" her you were going to the skrip klub and she said she'd think about it. Sounds to me like you asked her to go w/you. You wanna hit it don't ya?

You should definitely go to the strip club with her and try to hit it

IDB

dont be a homewrecker dude, aint cool... if she should get a divorce then she needs to... there are clean divorces, but if you get involved it'll just **** things up, plus give the kids reason not to trust her, you'd make her the bad guy...

Go and see what happens. Trust your gut. Maybe she's looking for something she's not getting at home. That could be :boink: or it could be the company. Let her lead.

He's not wrecking her home, she is, it's her decision to go and do what she may and it's her responsibility to keep her home intact, not his, he ain't married to anyone.

It's still wrong dude.

If she likes naked girls then hit it!`

:wtf: the point is he'd be playing a part in the affair, he knows shes married... he needs to be a man and a friend and encourage her to do whats right, not get off with her and let shit start spillin, if my mom did that and the dude knew she was married with kids, then fuck both of them.... i'd be pissed as shit and say to hell you with bitch, doing that to our family... trust me it'll effect the kids too