Well I've been seeing this girl for 7 months exactly today. We just decided today to cut it off. Here's the story.

Everything is fine up until school starts again and we had to part. I have been seeing here once maybe twice a week since I left for school and we talked on the phone still. Well she called me one day around the beginning of Nov. and wanted to have a break from our relationship. She said, "I want to have a break and I want us to see other people". Her reason was to see if we still had feelings for each other if we saw other people. Up until today I have been talking to her less, it seems she already went ahead and take me up on that offer. She made out with one of her old BF's but said there was no chemistry in their relatioship, and just today she told me she fooled around with some guy while she was drunk. She didn't do alot with him, but enough for it to be pretty foward for a one time deal. He felt her up and tried to get down her pants, but didn't let him. I have yet to have done anything with any other girl because I still had feelings for her, so it would feel awkward. Sure I would do it if I liked a girl, but I didn't. Anyway, after that we both said we should be friends and if anything happened between us after that, then whatever.

I dunno how to feel about this.. I got real upset and jealous after she told me she did that with another guy... I feel like she cheated on me, but i know we had that deal... I dunno, should we still hang out? We're pretty chill together, all of her friends think im a cool guy, so I just don't know how to feel. I really feel like I need to relax, I'm getting real beat up over this :sad:

I still like her alot.. I wish it could turn around

Any comments are welcome


Cliffs: Been with girl for 7 months. Took a break in nov. Just now fully cut it off. She fooled around with 2 guys when we took a break. Me getting upset and confused...

 

Move on. She obviously has. I find that "ohhh let's test our relationship" to be BS. She is in school, she is surrounded by new guys and parties. She wants to try new things.

Dont sit around and wait...

 

She found someone else...atleast she had the respect to tell she wanted a break before cheating on you. It could be a lot worse.

 

As much as you miss her, don't call her anymore. Keep yourself busy and find another girl to distract you. Sorry bro.

 

^^ what they said...it's really a no brainer man. move on...

 

From experiencing somewhat of the same deal about 5 months ago or so (cliff notes of relationship- going out for 2 years, broke it off, tried to be friends right afterwards) don't try to be friends... i would also higly recommend you do not talk to her more than once every week and a half or two weeks if possible. Shes gonna go out and party, and shes gonna love telling you about what happened, and its going to make you jealous as shit... you still have feelings for her, you may think it will "get better" or go away after time, but if you hang out with her and try to be friends it will not ever go away, trust me. I went on for about 2.5 months of "trying to be friends" with the ex, until i realized i feel the same exacty way as i did the week after we broke up... still really upset about what happened, still really jealous of everything. Ever since i stopped hanging out and talking on the phone so much things have turned right around.

 

sorry to hear, but bitches will be bitches. drop the ho and go find something or someone else to do.

 

you gotta just let it go, until you are over her completely i would suggest not talking to her at all because it will make it easier to forget about her as upsetting as that may sound. once you move on though you can try to be friends but probably by then you will realize you want nothing to do with her.

 

Yea, it just seems so easy to say. I have friends that have this happen to them a lot, and I tell them the same. Now I know how it feels to be in the same situation.

 

It probably doesn't help that I wrote a poem about the breakup, does it :sad: