The weekend of Aug 1st - 3rd is Lollapalooza in Chicago. My roommate really wants to go and we've been talking about it for a while. He benefits from me going with him because we would stay at my Grandma's place there which is a great location.

My gf knew about this all along, and about 2 weeks ago asked me if I would go with her to some friend of hers wedding reception "a few weeks from now," not really telling me the date. I told her sure.

Today the gf enailed me about a couple details for that wedding and mentions the date. My reaction of course is, "oh shit that's the weekend of Lollapalooza."

I told both my roommate and my gf about the situation and proposed that I go with my roommate to Lollapalooza Friday afternoon so he can at least get to see Radiohead, then drive back Saturday morning so I can make it to the wedding. I kinda sorta didn't feel like going to all three days of Lolla anyway. Now the gf is telling me it's "ok" if I go to all of Lolla (yeah right) and my roommate says he "has to think about" if he just wants to do Friday.

What y'all think I should do?

 

your room is being sneaky...

 

you committed to something first go with that, if the GF cant take it oh well she will get over it.

 

dump her

 

poon and drunkeness at wedding > rooming it up with the roomie and grandmaf or the weekend

 

go with the GF... :boink:

 

Sounds like you are making a reasonable compromise, if they can't handle it.. too bad.

 

go friday only to the show, if your roommate wants to stay for the rest of the weekend, he can.

 

lollapalooza is still around? last i heard metallica and rancid played it back in 96/97. h:

 

pics of GF are needed to help us help you...