My girlfriend left me a few days back and we were talking about working things out when she got back from her aunt's house this friday and then today she asked me over the phone if it was alright if she called me later on but she never did. She has ignored all my messages and just like 30 minutes ago she turned her phone off, which she never does. She had recently flipped out on me because on my Myspace i had a few girls and they had said some comments to me and she got upset. Well anyway it turns out i was looking through Myspace not too long ago and i came across a profile she had made about two days ago, and she has all this stuff written in it which i know isnt true, and she has that she is single and looking and loves to make porn and is bi, blah blah blah and it really hurt me alot that she would do something like this behind my back :wtc: We have been together for 5 years and i did my wrong things to her and she did her wrong things to me but i though we had finally gotten past all that and acted our ages (im 21 and she's 20) but finding out that she lied to me and said we'd work things out and be talking to other guys behind my back really struck me hard. I know alot of you will say things like "you two are young, stop flipping out over some myspace bullshyt", but this isnt about JUST myspace. this is about dishonesty, is that even a word? and how she could be so cold-hearted to actually do this to me when i was willing to work stuff out with her. I'm just really hurt, i cant focus on nothing, i came to Han because alot of you guys im cool with and i see how you guys treat each other when something serious comes up and i feel as if you guys are a second family to me. I am just so confused and i feel like breaking down and crying right now, she gave me the best 5 years of my life and now she is going to throw it all away over a stupid website. I HATE YOU TOM YOU DICKLESS MOTHERFUCKER AND YOUR WORTHLESS SITE!!!!

CN: my girlfriend is talking to other guys behind my back trying to cheat on me and i found out, but i love her too much to lose her. i need advice please.

 

Ihave been through some SERIOUS shit with my on again / off again.. but if she actually did cheat on me it'd make my decision super easy.

but i dont take the shit I read on the internet for gold... wait a day then ask her about it if you believe it so much

 

myspace ruins the world

 

you're at a really bad age for a serious relationship. Girls in the 20 to 23 age range only want to "discover" life.

I wish you luck, but also realize ... it's 1 girl ... better find out now rather than when you're 27.

 

thanks canada, thats what my friend told me to do also, if she actually does cheat on me, regardless of the 5 years we spent together i cannot go through that type of shyt in my life so she WILL be cut but its all confusing how she can call me on the phone, hours before i find this out, crying to me how she wants to work it out with me and then i find this bullshyt. either she is a great actor or someone else set her up to this.

Oh and sorry for making you all read this nonsense. i know you all got better things to read and post about so drew this one is for you:

 

Ditch the bitch. Seriously.

 

Shes obviously your first real gf...and trust me, it gets better when you move on.

 

well she just turned her phone on and message me saying she is sorry for ignoring me but supposedly her son and her family that were down at the shore had an accident and now they are stranded... hmm i dunno what to believe now.

 

before her i was in a relationship for 3 years and i had many girlfriends so no she isnt, she was just the one girl i really devoted my life to.

 

At my age I personally am not one to be hangin around girls who have kids. Is it your kid?