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Old Dec 13, 2003 | 10:41 PM
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Mkay story time. You all remember my women SUCK thread right? Well this is about girl #1. So anyway we went out to this bar in her town. We didnt go together we met there. So anyway I get there and her and her friend were hanging out with these two dudes.

I get introduced and i just figure she knew him from before. I asked her if he was a friend and she said no, just met him tonight. So i was like ok whatever. So anyway, nights going fine but it seems to me like shes paying more attention to this other guy than me.

I tryed keeping up with their conversation but it just wasnt happening (you know how that is when people talk about stuff u cant comment on at all) So im starting to get a little irritated. So next time i got a chance i say to her (in a low tone of course and i might also add that i was kinda drunk after 4 bears and 2 shots of Yeger) "you know i didnt drive 45 minutes down her to see you flirt with some other guy"

She says oh no im not blah blah blah. Night continues on ok...kinda the same way as the first half of the night went. So when we leave she gives me the biggest kisses and hugs and shit so im driving home a little on the tipsy side (dont flame me i know i was bad) feeling good about our situation.

I call her when i got home as I always do cause she worrys when i dont and i get her friend. Friend said she was in the bathroom and i told her to to tell her to call me back. So i hang up and get into bed. I think i was asleep before i hit the pillow. so anyway...no missed calls the next morning.

no call from her all that day or night, not to mention she wouldnt answer either of her phones. wouldnt answer my calls the next day either. and still today she wont even talk to me on the phone....however i did talk to her on IM.

the second day of no calls i found out from her (in a text message) that she was pissed at me about the flirting comment. she said it made her feel like a slut. i can understand that. but to make her pissed at me even after apologizing profusely and explaining myself to the ends of the earth. i asked her if there was anythin i could say or do to make her not pissed and she said no. im like what the ****.

so what do you all think. is she just being an unreasonable b!tch that i should just kick her sorry ass to the curb or do you think she has a valid gripe?
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Old Dec 13, 2003 | 10:41 PM
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Holy not dividing your thoughts into paragraphs batman! It's gonna take a while for me to read that...
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Old Dec 13, 2003 | 10:42 PM
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Your both crazy
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Old Dec 13, 2003 | 10:44 PM
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any suggestions nightshade?
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Old Dec 13, 2003 | 10:44 PM
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id help you out, if i could only read what you're trying to write
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Old Dec 13, 2003 | 10:45 PM
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Okay now that I've read it, are you dating this chick or have some sort of arrangement such that you could reasonably expect her to not flirt with other guys? Because unless you've got her at least somewhat locked down I don't really think you can make a comment like the one you did without pissing her off.
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Old Dec 13, 2003 | 10:47 PM
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eh.. i'll make cliffnotes for him:
he meets up with his girl at a bar.
the girl met this other guy there before he got there.
the girl seems to pay more attention to the newly met guy than him.
so he says "i didnt drive down here 45 min. to see u flirt with someone else".
girl gets mad cuz when he said that, it made her feel like a slut
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Old Dec 13, 2003 | 10:47 PM
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Ditch her and tell her to piss off you got better things to do.
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Old Dec 13, 2003 | 10:48 PM
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ditch that trick, quick. it'll only get worse from now on. if she calls you back and says all the "i'm sorry" bullshit, just hit it and quit it. but don't call her again. wait for her to do it. if she doesn't **** it.
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Old Dec 13, 2003 | 10:48 PM
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nice edit :eek3:

i would say.. dont call her, dont talk to her, dont bother thinkin about her. she wreaks of drama
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