This is now what I know, the third fuse down on the panel inside the car labelled (gauges/back up lights) was burned out. I replaced it and discovered that as soon as I put the car in reverse it burns out. So this leads me to believe that I either have a short in the back up lights or somehow in shifter mechanism...that tells the lights its in reverse. Any ideas on the matter would be appreciated. Something tells me this fuse also controls the heated seats, maybe I'll check there as well.