This is true, but for the shit in the relationship I didn't like, and the time spent dealing with bullshit, I concentrated on, "The best revenge is self-improvement." Elevate your game to "above the rim" proportions, and those around you will be happy that who YOU are didn't die, but got stronger.

Sounds deep and shit, but if you don't dig that deep to leap back into action, you won't get enough momentum to LIVE your life.